Children usually want to keep in contact with both of their parents, and that desire doesn’t stop just because one parent takes the kids on vacation. It’s critical that you plan for communication with your ex while you’re on vacation with the children.
One of the primary things you need to do is to review the parenting plan so you know what’s required. That’s the minimum you should do, but your children may want to be able to share more with their other parent.
Save time for communication
Be sure to block off time in the itinerary for your children to communicate with their other parent. The manner in which this happens is likely going to be stipulated by the parenting plan. Phone calls and video chats may be beneficial for younger children. Older kids may have their own phone and can handle the communication on their own, so that must be taken into consideration.
Consider taking pictures
Your children will likely want to share some of the vacation memories with their other parent. Offer to take pictures so your children can give them to your ex. You may even consider grabbing a souvenir for your kids to give to their other parent. Remember, vacations should be enjoyable for the children.
You must ensure that your vacation complies with the terms set by the parenting plan. If you don’t have one in your child custody case, now is the time to get one in order so you know what’s allowed and what’s not. Working with someone familiar with these matters may be beneficial.